Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Siblings

Siblings ... what can I say? You love them, you hate them, you need them, and you fight and then make up. Siblings are people you have to grow up with and grow into loving because they're the people who your with for part of your life. They teach you lessons even though you might not see it that way in the moment because you think they're annoying. But they will help you learn how to be social with people and have relationships with others because it's like you're practicing on them for yourself. They practically teach you how to live with someone else and how to talk to boys/girls and build relationships with them.
Siblings fight mostly all the time over stupid things you probably don't even remembered that happened, but eventually you'll get over it and become best friends again! You will always stick up for each other if someone else insults them because that's your "bestfriend"
However some people either never see their siblings or get along with them. Everyone's relationship with their siblings are different especially you're the younger or older sibling. Older siblings usually feel obligated to look after their younger brother/sister or are annoyed by them because they usually get all the attention. They youngest sibling probably hates their older sibling because they get everything first like the car, the parties, and a later curfew. Building a relationship with your sibling isn't easy because you go through so many things together: you share a home and sort of share a life (depending on how you look at it). Siblings are like you friends accept you have to tolerate them and you can't just cut them off because they'll always be around even if you don't want them there. You should probably cherish your sibling while your still young because once you grow up you might not see each other again, you might chose different life styles and may never have time to see each other again.
People who don't have siblings won't understand how hard it is or how fun it is to grow up with someone who will look out for you and understand you or even teach you valuable lessons, parents can only go so far with teaching you things. Imagine if you didn't have the sibling(s) you had today; who would you share your feelings with that you'll never tell your parents or friends?, how could you experience how to deal with arguments and keeping grudges without affecting your social life?